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Relationships
10 Pieces of Dating Advice After My 8 Years As A Therapist That Specializes In Dating & Relationships

10 Pieces of Dating Advice from a NYC Therapist

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Psychoanalysis
My Money Trauma And My Healing Journey

NYC Asian American Therapist shares her money trauma and how she healed.

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Relationships
NYC Dating and Relationship Therapist Answers : Why Do People Cheat?

Why People Cheat, NYC Dating and Relationship Therapist Answers

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Divorce
The Courage to Love Again After A Bad Breakup or Divorce

Thoughts and Tips on How to Love Again After A Bad Breakup

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Women
Grounding and Resourcing Exercise for Anxiety or Feeling Dysregulated In The Body

Grounding and Resourcing Exercises for Relaxation and Anxiety.

Relationships
How To Deal With Dating App Burnout

Tips on how to deal with dating app burnout and alternatives.

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Relationships
How To Heal From Avoidant Attachment In Dating and Relationships

TIps on how to heal and deal with avoidant attachment style in dating and relationships.

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Psychoanalysis
How To Deal With Feeling "Not Good Enough"

NYC Asian American Therapist Talks About How To Deal With Feeling "Not Good Enough"

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Asian American
How To Deal With Shame In "Asian" American, The Asian Part Of Your Identity

NYC Asian American Therapist talks about self hate, shame in Asian part.

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Women
NYC Asian American Therapist Reflects: One of the BIGGEST mistakes I've made in private practice business

Reflections of NYC Asian American Therapist of mistakes she has made in private practice over the years.

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Asian American
Asian American Therapist Reviews Minor Feelings By Cathy Park Hong

Asian American Therapist Reviews Minor Feelings By Cathy Park Hong

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Relationships
How To Heal From Anxious Attachment In Dating and Relationships

Tips for people who have anxious attachment in dating.

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Women
How To Deal With The Holiday Blues If You Are Sad and Lonely As Fuck.

Tips to fight holiday blues

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Relationships
How Scarcity Mindset Shows Up in Dating And How Abundance Mindset Can Help You

I talk about how scarcity mindset shows up in dating and why abundance mindset is sexy. I compare dating to eating dim sum and also talk about why Ji A from Singles Inferno is so attractive to men.

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Relationships
Fun Dating Challenge: Finding your Imago Exercise

Fun dating challenge, making your imago exercise. 10-15 minutes

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Asian American
Asian American Therapist Shanni Answers: Does Western Therapy Work on Eastern Minds?

Asian American therapist Shanni answers On episode 10 of the Netflix Show Beef, Danny said “Western therapy doesn't work on Eastern minds.” Is that true?

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Psychoanalysis
Guest Blog Post: The Therapeutic Window

Very special guest post by Richard G. Lanzara, MPH, PHD. Follow him on LinkedIn to learn more about his receptor research.

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Relationships
When You Feel the Biological Clock Tick, How Do You Find a Partner?

There is a lot of pressure to get married, to have children, and to create the white picket fence life. You begin to feel like your dating pool is shrinking, and as you age, you may start to feel like you’ll be single forever. Society definitely doesn’t help on the anxiety front.

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Relationships
4 Tips to Avoid Attracting Narcissist-Like People

If you’re here and reading this, odds are you have found yourself in a relationship with a narcissistic person. If you’ve found yourself in multiple relationships with a narcissist, you’re probably wondering why you keep attracting this type of person. The truth is, there have likely been warning signs along the way that you missed.

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Asian American
What Is Culturally Responsible Therapy & What Does It Look Like?

More and more people are opening up about their struggles with mental health. Society has begun to place a much higher priority on mental health and establishing a healthy balance.

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Asian American
4 Ways to Quell Anxiety About Racial Profiling

Anxiety has become the most common mental health disorder, appearing in various forms. Understandably, for people of color, systemic racism, microaggression, and overt racism can fuel anxiety.

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